Independence

Yes, I know we all love to be independent. But, my question is to what extent? Human beings are social animals.. It's been taught to us since our school days and we do accept it. In this life, during our childhood we need out parents to be with us, to share our thoughts, our problems, our success like sorrow, everything. Moving on there comes a stage where we depend more on friends than parents. We can share those things which we can't share with our parents. And then comes girl friend, wife/husband. Throughout our life we need a hearing ear, we need a resting shoulder, we need someone or other.
I here meet a female who changed my whole perception of seeing independent living. She is over 90 years old. Yes she is. She stays all alone, she goes to church driving her car, goes to grocery store and buys things for herself, fills up gas f for her car, cooks food, does almost everything. She likes to be independent, that's awesome... But is it good.??? At this age..
Biggest question that keeps eating my head..

Life in Hagerstown

I have moved to this place called "Hagerstown", from Washington D.C. Its a small place compared to DC and isn't that happening. Thats what people say! Trust me this place is beautiful. People here whom i have met are really friendly. Working for an reputed company with amazing people around me is a very good stepping stone for my career, i am looking forward to do really well in my future endeavors. The department that i work for has really talented, knowledgeable people who are ready to teach me whatever i wanna learn. I have met an amazing couple here from my workplace. Mr and Mrs Smith. Such a lovely pair. Happiness is when they invited me over to their house for dinner and she had prepared South Indian curry. It was delicious by default but the love they had put in it added more taste to it. I discussed a lot of things with them, it was an amazing conversation. Right next to the place i live i have a beautiful cemetery. Amazing place to walk and seek realization about life. However you live your life, how much ever you earn, finally you will be buried in the ground without anything. You come to this world with nothing, you go from here taking nothing, why to struggle for secreting stuff that you can never take with you. All you need this life is to live and help others who cant. Such an amazing place to think deep into our life. I have been visiting church here to learn about christianity, "Part of my concept of Exploring life", its been an amazing journey so far. Learning about bible, listening to prayers, getting to know people and their life stories and more important is getting to know their problems.. Going to church always makes me emotional during the end. So many people with so many problems still faith in god and always confident that he takes care of us. I have met lot of awesome friends here and one of my colleague has an amazing kid, an angel, who makes me forget anything and everything that i am going through in my life.. she is a divine child.. i love kids and i love spending time with her.. Her parents Mr and Mrs eric are amazing souls.. She is such adorable kid. I have met an amazing soul called "Caitlin", OMG! such a beautiful and kind hearted female, i have never seen anyone as such in my life... Fun is to meet all these people during weekends.. Lonely life here in USA is turning out to be real fun and exciting... Will explain some other important concepts that i have understood in my next blog.